Well this is an absolutely fantastic question with lots of answers. Most would probably dispense some not too worthwhile over simplistic advice like “play your game” or “forget your opponent”. Well most of us can’t and this is a big psychological problem that at some point should be addressed, we spend so much time trying to beat “the guy who is better or on par with us” that when it comes time to just put away the little guy; we fail. I can’t even tell you how many times I have failed to do so.
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Originally Posted by Tony_in_MD
Humans are basically lazy in the fact that we tend to do the minimum to get by.
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This is a big one.
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….when playing a weaker opponent, you cannot afford to play lazy because you are thinking that they have no chance.
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Yes; this line of thought gets a lot of “weaker player wins” in fact I would say 50%, maybe more.
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What I do is set goals for myself if I am matched up with a weaker opponent, I focus on those goals, in order to not get trapped into lazy play.
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Excellent suggestion; I will try this.
How I have dealt with this is not too different from the normal work I am doing to improve as a player. Focus on your technical knowledge and fundamental knowledge of the game. This is harder for “feel” players than it is “technical” players. I do make the distinction.
For the 1st 12-15 yrs I played this game I thought that if one knew enough about the science of the game and with enough practice you could beat (just about) anyone. Well I look back and realize how much work on the mental game I missed out on with this misguided thought process. I have some regret and embarrassment with regards to that but life and pool go on, besides that line of thought is what propelled me to amass the technical knowledge that I do have today; so it isn’t a total loss.
Josh Waitzkin: chess player (the guy the movie searching for Bobby Fischer is based on) gives some great advice in his chess course that applies to pool as well. PRESENCE is the key; in other words living in the moment and not the future or past.
Another thing is identification of all the psychological aspects of the situation at hand and how and why they are affecting your game. Dave Sapolis talks a lot about this in his articles, I suggest you read them.
http://www.easypooltutor.com/article...-articles.html
Generally speaking as one gets older this problem decreases (not always by any means) that is probably why Fran asked how old you were, I don’t think it was meant to “say” anything about you or be derogatory. Sometimes we get some stuff in our minds and we don’t even realize that it is affecting our game because this stuff is happening on a subconscious level and is affecting the very decisions that we are making; even something as simple as shot choice, and sometimes this is with players that are better than we are also not just players below us in skill level; just to take 2 quick examples (remember I am saying that these thoughts are not occurring to us as “self talk” but are ideas that we are not consciously aware of that are making us make choices, feel poorly and disrupting our “normal play”)
#1: an opponent that is obviously at least a handicap below us; maybe more “Man if I play this safe I am going to look like an unskilled slob and just take the easy win against a guy who couldn’t beat me with a gun if I had a knife, and what if he gets lucky? My team/people around me would laugh/cry”
#2: an opponent that is a handicap above us, or more; “Man if I miss this shot he is out game, set, match”
And I could come up with at least 10 more for each real fast. What you are talking about is one of the life long studies in this game and there are more qualified people to answer it than I am. I am sure still working on this aspect of my game and I think most of us beg-pro will always be, Good luck and I am right there learning with you, still searching for a “trick” to it? Please, please, please let me know if you ever find one.